can you help

[Pauline Ashford]

I have a very convoluted case that I have been struggling to get my head around for sometime. I know that it is a case of prioritising the symptoms but there is so much info in this case it is hard to know where to start. However there is now a complicating factor in that she is Pregnant. Biggest worry is her extreme (though under the supervision of a medical specialist - though he is very aware and open to alt medicine and is a huge advocate of vaccinations being damaging) use of codeine and valium to control her 'nervous seizures' (will elaborate later. The dosing is not daily but prn but can involve belive it or not up to 16 valium tabs in one hit in conjunction with codeine in high doses also. Valium was to counteract the tolerance she was building to the codeine. So of course i have been contacted re the worry of the drugs affecting the foetus. Compliance will be much better I feel with this now the pregnancy is here. In the short term I have advised Nux vom to counteract the drugging and also as she is so irritable and often constipated.
Where to start????

PHYSICAL fine featured, fine bone structure, oily skin and hair, fine but lank long hair

MENTAL /EMOTIONAL: Fiery temper3/ Rages/ can resort to violence against others or self/ brings up old issues
Memory like an elephant/ cruel to animals arouns 10-12yo/ Never 'fitted in' / not good enough/ bullied/teased at school/ rejected by other kids
Had a male persone for years between the ages of 7 -13yo - 'felt stronger and safer as male/ dressed as a male at school and used a male derivative of her own name
Attended multiple schools
FEARS other women/ disapproval3/ being abandoned by partner3 'who would care for me' 'i couldnt cope'/ strangers/ people touching her/ other peoples expectations/ other people/ but fears being alone
Takes offense easily esp to perceived disapproval. Broods ++
Has not 'coped' or really cared for herself since probably 20's (now late 30's) - first major 'cant cope' age 20 around birth of son present partner very accomodating -perhaps even too much so?? (dont want that to sound arrogant but would never leave her to her own devices)
- is her 'carer' Pt doesnt function in outside world and rarely leaves her 'special airconditioned filtered environment' is basically an invalid
Very bright and intellectual - analyses and intellectualises every thing+++++ I actually have given her remedies without names on bottles to stop her intellectualising the remedy and having a response to her perceived interpretation of the remedy (she has a good homoeopathic library)
approval heat, bedridden 2-3/28, av flow, PMS+++++ 14/28 > since being vegan, violent moods swings, tears ---- violence,

NERVOUS SEIZURES ; gets a 'rush' (only way she could describe it) through the body and must stay perfectly still or the 'rush' just reoccurs
along with anxiety3, fearful3, fragile3, weak3, vulnerable3, is terrified of everything and everyone < reading head throbs SAI brain was seizing up, queasy, dizzy, comprehensions poor,palpitations with panic attacks, virtually paralysing as doesnt move for hours or days until it passes Takes the huge doses of Codeine and valium for these 'seizures' (her word) also uses codeine/valium for neuralgic pains - skin can feel numb superficial < Lside head and R side of body.
Cant cope with pain - mental emotional or physical

MIGRAINES last up to 3 days visual disturbances grey patches b4 the eyes, skin can feel numb superficial < Lside head and R side of body, pain in head l sided
left with a SAI had been beaten up or some terrible internal happening, < light, nausea and now vomiting (didnt used to vomit) weaknesss+++ trembling, dizziness, dreads3 menses because of migraines

Wow what a history ay
So if any of you can offer some assiatnce with direction, rubrics, remedies and most importantly how we can minimise the effects of the drugging on the foetus I would be grateful. Have put her onto EFT - as a research project at this point as she is resistant to new things without analysing them but feel this would help her a lot and will take it up with her if she wants. Remedies used so far Bell - pain rages, Nux vom drug effects, constipation, irritability etc
Mag phos LMs with some results at times but as I said compliance has not been always great - ?? self sabotage - has been ill for so long now - I wonder if there is an element of how could I live if I had to care for myself?? or if I got well?? I would like to explore this with EFT if allowed
Thanks for your time Pauline
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