client

Amity & Jason Engleson · Fri Feb 08, 2013 8:20 pm

I have a client who is never happy with the results. For instance I gave him one remedy and he was 70% better but it wasn't good enough for him. I like to do facial analysis- he refused to have his picture taken. He did not say why just no. It has nothing to do with religion and such and he himself is an avid photographer who has won many awards. Any thoughts on how to handle this situation as well as how to repertorize this?

Tanya Marquette · Post by **Tanya Marquette** » Fri Feb 08, 2013 8:36 pm

Ask him if he really wants to heal!
Many people cling to their symptoms for some reason or other.
Now that is something to explore.
As a photographer he may be like many others who hate their photos taken.
My daughter is like that.
Issues of personal exposure? Vanity (low self image)? Something else?
tanya
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I have a client who is never happy with the results. For instance I gave him one remedy and he was 70% better but it wasn't good enough for him. I like to do facial analysis- he refused to have his picture taken. He did not say why just no. It has nothing to do with religion and such and he himself is an avid photographer who has won many awards. Any thoughts on how to handle this situation as well as how to repertorize this?

Shannon Nelson · Post by **Shannon Nelson** » Fri Feb 08, 2013 8:45 pm

consider nitric acid? (okay okay, shooting from the hip…)

But -- I would ask what he is most bothered by in the remaining 30%? It may be that his most troublesome issue is still within that 30%, and that would be useful to know.

Shannon

Shannon Nelson · Post by **Shannon Nelson** » Fri Feb 08, 2013 8:47 pm

Knowing why he doesn't want his picture taken could be a useful clue to the remedy?
Maybe if you put it in terms of curiosity, plus the joy of being hard on the heels of a good riddle, maybe you can charm or disarm him into revealing why?

Amity & Jason Engleson · Fri Feb 08, 2013 10:16 pm

I think he expects immediate responses. He changed the subject and I felt like he was leading me through the interview steering me and bringing me back to his physical complaint. He is open to this treatment yet at the same time needs to know exactly what it is and what it will do to him, emails me "I will not take this remedy ever again" so maybe I will ask him if he wants to heal.

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Tanya Marquette · Post by **Tanya Marquette** » Fri Feb 08, 2013 10:42 pm

he also sounds very controlling. consider that as a symptom in his case.
is he judgemental? or condescending? is he compensating for a needy side
of his personality? just some thoughts to consider as you know the case.
t
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I think he expects immediate responses. He changed the subject and I felt like he was leading me through the interview steering me and bringing me back to his physical complaint. He is open to this treatment yet at the same time needs to know exactly what it is and what it will do to him, emails me "I will not take this remedy ever again" so maybe I will ask him if he wants to heal.

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Irene de Villiers · Post by **Irene de Villiers** » Sat Feb 09, 2013 8:59 am

I would not do that, it's a homeopath-ego question, not one to heal the client - clearly he wants to heal, or he would not consult you. Different people heal different ways:
I'd ask more questions to get him talking - so he can explain how he feels, what he fears, what he expects, what he wants to see, etc. It's about him, not you, I'd get to know the essential person, what *he* needs, how *he* needs to feel. (It will all help to do better remedy selection anyway). Take him seriously. Don't try to make him into how *you* want him to be. Address his concerns with real answers. That will dissolve his control/trust/suspicion issues - otherwise I suspect they can become a wall preventing progress.

Just my opinion.
Namaste,
Irene

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Tanya Marquette · Post by **Tanya Marquette** » Sat Feb 09, 2013 12:45 pm

There are people who come for the attention and not healing. They like to see you
spin your wheels. Whether they that consciously or not, it is part of their intention.
As a practitioner, one needs to decide how long they will allow this behavior to go on.
And one can also ask a client what the symptoms mean to them in their life. How they
feel about having those symptoms. But that is even harder to get people to focus on unless
they are into the metaphysics of illness
tanya
From: Irene de Villiers
Sent: Saturday, February 09, 2013 2:59 AM
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I would not do that, it's a homeopath-ego question, not one to heal the client - clearly he wants to heal, or he would not consult you. Different people heal different ways:
I'd ask more questions to get him talking - so he can explain how he feels, what he fears, what he expects, what he wants to see, etc. It's about him, not you, I'd get to know the essential person, what *he* needs, how *he* needs to feel. (It will all help to do better remedy selection anyway). Take him seriously. Don't try to make him into how *you* want him to be. Address his concerns with real answers. That will dissolve his control/trust/suspicion issues - otherwise I suspect they can become a wall preventing progress.

Just my opinion.
Namaste,
Irene

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Irene de Villiers, B.Sc AASCA MCSSA D.I.Hom/D.Vet.Hom.
P.O. Box 4703 Spokane WA 99220.
www.angelfire.com/fl/furryboots/clickhere.html (Veterinary Homeopath.)
"Man who say it cannot be done should not interrupt one doing it."

Shannon Nelson · Post by **Shannon Nelson** » Sat Feb 09, 2013 2:16 pm

Irene, I love your perspective here! I totally agree.

Shannon

Patricia Adams · Post by **Patricia Adams** » Sat Feb 09, 2013 2:46 pm

perhaps he should be treated for "control/trust/suspicion" issues first ... sorry couldn't help myself lol

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Irene, I love your perspective here! I totally agree.

Shannon