Unreal

[Jean Doherty]

Well one has to understand. Maybe
MIND; DELUSIONS; dreaming when awake, imagines himself (1) : bell.
MIND; DELUSIONS; existence; doubt if anything had (1) : agn.
MIND; DELUSIONS; existence; doubted his own (1) : cann-i.
MIND; DELUSIONS; existence; two existences, to have (1) : cann-i.1
MIND; DELUSIONS; existence; without form in vast space (1) : cann-i.11
What are her expectations of friends and family. I believe Cann I is
greatly into control
. I am sure others can help more. Best wishes Jean
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[Sim Thiam Chye]

Hi Jean

i would say that her expectations is nothing out of the ordinary - just as
most mothers, wife, friends would have.
It is more of her reactions to disappointment. It hits her harder than most
people.
Of her sense of "unrealness", it is more of a conflict/mismatch between
reasons & emotions. In another sense it is also a struggle/ being torned
between fulfiling a duty and pursuing her own ambition/goals. She is
frustrated that that she can't have both...either way she will be unhappy.
Nothing seems right to her....She keeps repeating an expressions in Chinese
which I am finding difficulty translating it to english. It has elements of
boredom and frustration in it. Everything bothers her.
Maybe someone suggest some equivalent english expression

Thanks for rubics suggested.

Warm Regards
TC

[Joy Lucas]

Possibly the rubric - 'undertakes things opposed to intentions"

best, Joy
on 8/13/03 1:44 PM, SIM Thiam Chye at tcsim@starhub.net.sg wrote:

Hi Jean

i would say that her expectations is nothing out of the ordinary - just as
most mothers, wife, friends would have.
It is more of her reactions to disappointment. It hits her harder than most
people.
Of her sense of "unrealness", it is more of a conflict/mismatch between
reasons & emotions. In another sense it is also a struggle/ being torned
between fulfiling a duty and pursuing her own ambition/goals. She is
frustrated that that she can't have both...either way she will be unhappy.
Nothing seems right to her....She keeps repeating an expressions in Chinese
which I am finding difficulty translating it to english. It has elements of
boredom and frustration in it. Everything bothers her.
Maybe someone suggest some equivalent english expression

Thanks for rubics suggested.

Warm Regards
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[Sim Thiam Chye]

Hi Joy

that is a possibility. Her homeopath gave her sepia at her last visit; and
sepia is found under this rubic.
one thought that just strike me is that it could be 'MIND; guilty' also.
There were times that she follow her intentions, and
at other times her 'duty'. It depends the prevailing circumstances she is
in. Both are not conducive for her.

well wish,
tc

[Joy Lucas]

There is also 'contradiction of will' and 'believes she has 2 wills'

Joy
on 8/13/03 3:37 PM, SIM Thiam Chye at tcsim@starhub.net.sg wrote:

Hi Joy

that is a possibility. Her homeopath gave her sepia at her last visit; and
sepia is found under this rubic.
one thought that just strike me is that it could be 'MIND; guilty' also.
There were times that she follow her intentions, and
at other times her 'duty'. It depends the prevailing circumstances she is
in. Both are not conducive for her.

well wish,
tc
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[Rosemary Hyde]

Your description of "unrealness" as a conflict between reason and emotion, or between duty and her goals would me me wonder about rubrics such as "romatinc" or "idealistic."

From Radar:

MIND - IDEALISTIC
aq-pet.;1;mtf11 caust.;3;mrr1 chin.;2;mrr1 ignis-alc.;1;es2

MIND - SENTIMENTAL
acon.;1;k agn.;2;bro1 alco.;1;a1 alco.;1;j am-c.;1;bro1 am-m.;1;bro1 ambr.;1;sf1 ant-c.;4;k1 ant-c.;4;st ant-c.;4;tl1 ars.;1;bg2 ars.;1;k aur.;2;bro1 aur-m-n.;2;wbt2 aur-s.;1;wbt2 berb.;1;a1 cact.;1;bro1 calc.;1;bg2 calc.;1;k calc-p.;2;bg2 calc-p.;2;bro1 calc-p.;2;k canth.;1;bg2 canth.;1;k carb-an.;1;bro1 carc.;1;fb carc.;1;mlr1 carc.;1;mrr1 carc.;1;tpw2 carc.;1;zzh castm.;1;k caust.;1;gl1 caust.;1;vh chin.;1;k chinin-ar.;1;k cimic.;1;bro1 cloth.;1;wht1 cocc.;2;ckh1 cocc.;2;k cocc.;2;mrr1 coff.;2;bg2 coff.;2;hr1 coff.;2;k con.;1;bg2 con.;1;k crot-h.;1;bg2 crot-h.;1;j5 crot-h.;1;sf1 cupr.;2;k cycl.;2;bro1 dendr-pol.;1;sk4 dig.;1;bro1 dig.;1;hr1 dream-p.;1;sdj1 graph.;2;bro1 hydr-ac.;1;k iber.;1;bro1 ign.;3;bg2 ign.;3;k ind.;2;bro1 ind.;2;stj2 kali-p.;1;bro1 kola;1;stb3 kreos.;1;bg2 kreos.;1;j5 lac-del.;1;hrn2 lac-lup.;1;hrn2 lach.;1;bg2 lach.;1;bro1 lach.;1;k laur.;1;j5 lil-t.;1;bro1 loxo-recl.;1;knl4 lyc.;1;bg2 lyc.;1;k lyc.;1;mrr1 manc.;1;k mur-ac.;1;bro1 naja;1;bro1 nat-c.;1;bro1 nat-c.;1;ckh1 nat-m.;2;bro1 nat-m.;2;ckh1 nat-m.;2;mrr1 nat-m.;2;tl1 nat-m.;2;vh nat-m.;2;vh/dg nat-m.;2;vhx1 nat-s.;1;bro1 nat-sil.;2;fd3 nit-ac.;1;bro1 nit-ac.;1;gl1 nit-ac.;1;j5 nit-ac.;1;vh nux-v.;2;bg2 nux-v.;2;gl1 nux-v.;2;k1 nux-v.;2;vh olib-sac.;1;wmh1 ph-ac.;1;bro1 phos.;2;bg2 phos.;2;bro1 phos.;2;k pieri-b.;1;mlk9 plat.;1;bg2 plat.;1;bro1 plat.;1;k plat.;1;mrr1 plb.;1;gl1 plb.;1;vh podo.;1;fd3 psor.;2;a1 psor.;2;bg2 psor.;2;hr1 psor.;2;k puls.;2;bg2 puls.;2;bro1 puls.;2;mrr1 puls.;2;sf1 rhus-t.;1;bro1 ribo.;1;rly4 sabad.;1;k sabin.;1;sf1 sec.;1;bro1 sel.;2;bro1 sep.;2;bro1 stann.;2;bro1 stann.;2;stj2 staph.;2;k staph.;2;mrr1 staph.;2;vh/dg staph.;2;vhx1 sulph.;2;hr1 sulph.;2;k thuj.;1;bro1 tub.;3;mrr1 zinc.;1;bro1 zinc.;1;stj2 zinc-i.;1;stj2 zinc-m.;1;stj2 zinc-n.;1;stj2 zinc-p.;1;stj2

Rosemary

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