Rubric ideas?

[Laura Peterson]

For someone who has an aversion to work in general, but wants to be
inspired to a career.
Moslty looking for direction/ purpose in his life rather than just work
to pay the bills. The rubrics under occupation in the mind section don't
seem to fit.
Thanks,
Laura Peterson
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[Dave Hartley]

Hello Laura,

This hardly seems like a state which should be treated - rather the
reverse!
--sounds like an evolving state of consciousness; a place where I'd hope
that homeopathy could lead people *TO* rather than away =:->)

Unless the aversion to work is overwhelming?
Or if there is strong irresponsibility in terms of "work just to pay
bills" as necessary..

If you could explain why you see something here as a condition to be
cured, perhaps there may be some applicable rubrics.

warm regards,

Dave Hartley www.holistiq.com
San Francisco, CA
(415)626-6390 cell(415)424-5644
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[Laura Peterson]

Hi Dave,

You wrote:

Yes! That is the problem. We all search for meaningful work but most of
us recognize the need to pay the bills. He is young and his dad is still
paying the bills, but wants the son to start gaining independence. Most
young adults manage to do this in some fashion. He wants to opt out
completely.

Thanks for the thoughts,
Laura
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[Shannon Nelson]

Possibly "Fancies, exaltation of"; "Indolence"; "Egotism"; Business, averse
to; Time, fritters away; Work, aversion to mental?

Why does he want to "opt out" -- is it *hard* for him to work, for any
reason? Does he feel he's too good for it (maybe delusions re royalty,
haughtiness?)? Is he simply confused or helpless or hopeless about what he
would do? Does he have any interests? (If he is so young, tho, maybe it's
just a normal stage in a kid who's been allowed to "skate" a bit too much
thus far, and he just needs a mini-lecture and a shove?)

Shannon
on 5/1/03 10:10 PM, ljmp@juno.com at ljmp@juno.com wrote:

[Tanya Marquette]

i am thinking of a woman i dealt with who doesnt work. the issue of responsibility is very strong here.
she is so responsible that she is burned out on it. this is another perspective on the subject. and the
opposite, axiety for failure comes to mind as well

tanya

[EarthLink User]

Or is he Sulphur. I had a man who worked but told me that he should not have
to, since he had great ideas that he needed time to work on.
Sue

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punitive
caused.

[Laura Peterson]

Hi Tanya,
Responsible does not fit! LOL!
Anxiety for failure does - thanks for reminding me of that one.
Laura
On Fri, 2 May 2003 13:29:56 -0400 "tanya marquette"
writes:
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