Fears - was Ignatia
Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2005 5:06 pm
Fascinating - I have had several people with 'white coat symdrome' and was concerned that 'fear of doctors' was inappropriate. Guess I always equate FEAR within the rep as a stronger and more pronounced expression. When I've asked people about a fear and they say 'well, it's a concern but I certainly wouldn't call it a fear', I have been reluctant to use those aspects as part of their case.
This has always been a difficult point for me. There is normal, appropriate fear that keeps us from doing something stupid. Then there is fear which is a level of concern that is brought on by a traumatic event - such as an earthquake, or neighborhood violence ( that again seems a normal and appropriate response ) that persists for some time then diminishes or dissapears. Then there is the unreasonable fear (or reasonable blown out of proportion). It's easy when you ask someone about fears and they respond with 'I'm terrified of snakes' and when they say the words their respiration becomes fast and shallow, they grip the chair, and become stiff as a board. That's clear enough. But when they say something 'is a concern' or 'well, I'm not fond of heights', it just has not seemed right to use the fear rubrics.
I would love to hear how others use fears in their analysis of a case - particularly those that are not 'extreme' expressions.
This has always been a difficult point for me. There is normal, appropriate fear that keeps us from doing something stupid. Then there is fear which is a level of concern that is brought on by a traumatic event - such as an earthquake, or neighborhood violence ( that again seems a normal and appropriate response ) that persists for some time then diminishes or dissapears. Then there is the unreasonable fear (or reasonable blown out of proportion). It's easy when you ask someone about fears and they respond with 'I'm terrified of snakes' and when they say the words their respiration becomes fast and shallow, they grip the chair, and become stiff as a board. That's clear enough. But when they say something 'is a concern' or 'well, I'm not fond of heights', it just has not seemed right to use the fear rubrics.
I would love to hear how others use fears in their analysis of a case - particularly those that are not 'extreme' expressions.