surgery follow up
Posted: Sat Oct 14, 2017 4:54 pm
Hi
Just wanted to share some follow up of my daughter's surgery. So many
of you were very helpful in
sharing experience/information.
The surgery went okay as the surgeon said. But the aftermath was very
difficult as daughter came out of the
anesthesia. I think it was typical tho. I could not get near her due to
a difficult nurse who seemed to want to
bully me. I won't get into that. I gave Arnica 200c the nite before
the surgery and didnt begin remedies until
after we got home from the hospital. They did not keep her overnight
but it took over 11 hours from getting
to the hospital till she could get out. That was another nightmare
where staff created drama that took at least
an extra 3+ hours to get thru. So it may not have been till late evening
before more Arnica 200c was given. Daughter
woke a lot and kept taking Arnica which I stopped in the morning due to
concern for proving. The pain from the surgery
would come in waves or episodes that were intensely debiliting causing
daughter to just break down crying from the
pain. When I could finally get some adjectives for the pain it was
burning and sharp prickling. I first thought Ars which
we did not have on hand but then realized it was more likely Hyper and
so did Hyper 200c which seemed to work. Had
her try to pay attention to signs of an episode of pain beginning and to
take another dose at that moment which worked
Yesterday at some point she reported throbbing pain, saying there was no
more bruising. Yea for Arnica! Belladonna 30c
was available so had her take that and instructed her to alternate betw
Hyper and Bell depending on the symptom. Really
strictly acute treatment. This a.m. she posted me that she feels more
energetic, was up and about washing dishes and
handling windows and her cats, etc. She is finally back in her body
again. My daughter is very independent and very
insistent on expecting to handle everything herself; does not trust
others at all to do the right or helpful thing. Her aide
was a very nice young woman but one who had no experience in helping
someone learn to deal with her disability, so
wasn't as helpful as was needed. So today she is ready to take on the
world which I cautioned against. It really is hard for
someone to take in the level of shock to the system that occurs with
such injuries and invasive surgeries. She was very
cold on Thursday when I was there so added blankets and gave her a hat I
made that is hot to wear even in winter but
this was both comforting as well as warming to her. She is still
wearing the hat today so I know the shock has not completely
let the body but and thinking to not do anything more about it since it
is only the 3rd day and improvement is great. More
concerned to keep pain under control and looking for the moment to start
Symph for the bone healing.
Not sure what to do or think about the metal hardware they inserted. Am
even wondering if some of the burning, prickling pain
wasn't from that metal itself. If anyone has any thoughts on this,
would appreciate hearing them.
Ellen--Daughter was definitely interested in the rubber bands you spoke
of but not sure about them now since they did not
repair the ligaments but removed the damaged ones. They pinned the
broken metatarsal bones to the undamaged adjacent ones.
Any thoughts on this?
One ot the best things that has come out of this, from my perspective,
is my daughter realizing so many people really do care about
her. People have given her massive amounts of equipment like crutches
and walkers. Neighbors have come by and are willing to check
in with her and help with housekeeping and shopping. Family who she has
been saying are cruel and dismissive have been calling.
And she even has realized how much she really needed and appreciated me
coming down to be with her for 2 days even while I am
going thru some kind on debility now myself. So am hoping she can take
this forward as a spiritual growth. She even mentioned trying
to come to Thanksgiving which she has boycotted for years. Really big
deal that it is even a thought.
So thanks much again for all the support everyone here has given. Will
reach out again if I run into questions.
tanya
Just wanted to share some follow up of my daughter's surgery. So many
of you were very helpful in
sharing experience/information.
The surgery went okay as the surgeon said. But the aftermath was very
difficult as daughter came out of the
anesthesia. I think it was typical tho. I could not get near her due to
a difficult nurse who seemed to want to
bully me. I won't get into that. I gave Arnica 200c the nite before
the surgery and didnt begin remedies until
after we got home from the hospital. They did not keep her overnight
but it took over 11 hours from getting
to the hospital till she could get out. That was another nightmare
where staff created drama that took at least
an extra 3+ hours to get thru. So it may not have been till late evening
before more Arnica 200c was given. Daughter
woke a lot and kept taking Arnica which I stopped in the morning due to
concern for proving. The pain from the surgery
would come in waves or episodes that were intensely debiliting causing
daughter to just break down crying from the
pain. When I could finally get some adjectives for the pain it was
burning and sharp prickling. I first thought Ars which
we did not have on hand but then realized it was more likely Hyper and
so did Hyper 200c which seemed to work. Had
her try to pay attention to signs of an episode of pain beginning and to
take another dose at that moment which worked
Yesterday at some point she reported throbbing pain, saying there was no
more bruising. Yea for Arnica! Belladonna 30c
was available so had her take that and instructed her to alternate betw
Hyper and Bell depending on the symptom. Really
strictly acute treatment. This a.m. she posted me that she feels more
energetic, was up and about washing dishes and
handling windows and her cats, etc. She is finally back in her body
again. My daughter is very independent and very
insistent on expecting to handle everything herself; does not trust
others at all to do the right or helpful thing. Her aide
was a very nice young woman but one who had no experience in helping
someone learn to deal with her disability, so
wasn't as helpful as was needed. So today she is ready to take on the
world which I cautioned against. It really is hard for
someone to take in the level of shock to the system that occurs with
such injuries and invasive surgeries. She was very
cold on Thursday when I was there so added blankets and gave her a hat I
made that is hot to wear even in winter but
this was both comforting as well as warming to her. She is still
wearing the hat today so I know the shock has not completely
let the body but and thinking to not do anything more about it since it
is only the 3rd day and improvement is great. More
concerned to keep pain under control and looking for the moment to start
Symph for the bone healing.
Not sure what to do or think about the metal hardware they inserted. Am
even wondering if some of the burning, prickling pain
wasn't from that metal itself. If anyone has any thoughts on this,
would appreciate hearing them.
Ellen--Daughter was definitely interested in the rubber bands you spoke
of but not sure about them now since they did not
repair the ligaments but removed the damaged ones. They pinned the
broken metatarsal bones to the undamaged adjacent ones.
Any thoughts on this?
One ot the best things that has come out of this, from my perspective,
is my daughter realizing so many people really do care about
her. People have given her massive amounts of equipment like crutches
and walkers. Neighbors have come by and are willing to check
in with her and help with housekeeping and shopping. Family who she has
been saying are cruel and dismissive have been calling.
And she even has realized how much she really needed and appreciated me
coming down to be with her for 2 days even while I am
going thru some kind on debility now myself. So am hoping she can take
this forward as a spiritual growth. She even mentioned trying
to come to Thanksgiving which she has boycotted for years. Really big
deal that it is even a thought.
So thanks much again for all the support everyone here has given. Will
reach out again if I run into questions.
tanya