Minutus

Just want some ideas re feeling rejected and abandoned in a 9 yr. old boy. He has a lovely , caring family with Mum and partner (not sure if they are married or not) who he calls Dad but he wants contact with him. Arrangement have been made in the past but his birth father doesn’t turn up. He knocked at his door recently and feels sure he heard someone at home and he shouted through the letter box it was him but the door wasn’t opened.
He also has issues of being bullied at school (he is large and overweight ) and he feels left out . He tried not to react to the bullying e.g. getting tripped up . At a recent residential he wasn’t given the password by his peers to let him into the room where all the others had gathered.
I have been treating him for a few months for behavioural problems. His background was he fell off a top bunk at 18 months onto his head. Nat Sulph worked miracles and he is a much calmer lad since then. He is a lovely boy – very intelligent in the adult was he speaks . He has answers for every argument and won’t back down. He is always warm . I tried Sulphur once but it really didn’t do anything and we went back to Nat Sulph. Looking back on his consultations I gave him Puls yesterday as he has been known to cling to mum when upset and Puls is in the Rx which follow well from Nat Sulph.
He craves cucumber and potatoes.
I am open to more suggestions
Thanks

Rochelle Marsden MSc, RSHom, MNWCH, AAMET

Registered with the Society of Homeopaths

EFT(Advanced) Practitioner

www.southporthomeopathy.co.uk

https://www.facebook.com/southporthomeopathicpractice

Hi Rochelle,

Look at the magnesium remedies. The theme of abandonment is in those remedies. This imparts the kind of resigned helplessness that they are unprotected and there is nothing that can be done about it, a bad situation that must be lived with.

Warmly, Maria
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From: "Rochelle"
To: minutus@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Friday, April 12, 2013 2:25:34 PM
Subject: [Minutus] Rejected
Just want some ideas re feeling rejected and abandoned in a 9 yr. old boy. He has a lovely , caring family with Mum and partner (not sure if they are married or not) who he calls Dad but he wants contact with him. Arrangement have been made in the past but his birth father doesn’t turn up. He knocked at his door recently and feels sure he heard someone at home and he shouted through the letter box it was him but the door wasn’t opened.
He also has issues of being bullied at school (he is large and overweight ) and he feels left out . He tried not to react to the bullying e.g. getting tripped up . At a recent residential he wasn’t given the password by his peers to let him into the room where all the others had gathered.
I have been treating him for a few months for behavioural problems. His background was he fell off a top bunk at 18 months onto his head. Nat Sulph worked miracles and he is a much calmer lad since then. He is a lovely boy – very intelligent in the adult was he speaks . He has answers for every argument and won’t back down. He is always warm . I tried Sulphur once but it really didn’t do anything and we went back to Nat Sulph. Looking back on his consultations I gave him Puls yesterday as he has been known to cling to mum when upset and Puls is in the Rx which follow well from Nat Sulph.
He craves cucumber and potatoes.
I am open to more suggestions
Thanks

Rochelle Marsden MSc, RSHom, MNWCH, AAMET

Registered with the Society of Homeopaths

EFT(Advanced) Practitioner

www.southporthomeopathy.co.uk

https://www.facebook.com/southporthomeopathicpractice

Hi Rochelle

See if Sacc Off fits?

Best Wishes Domenic

--- In minutus@yahoogroups.com, "Rochelle" wrote:

Interesting.
He has the egoism of sulph (never backing down)
Just looking at his cravings I find sulph and lac leo having both of them.
I don’t know Lac leo but all the milks seem to have nurturing issues. Perhaps
a read on this remedy might be interesting.
As for his father’s rejection—why is it so important to keep on trying to get this
man’s attention/love/support? My foster grand daughter has had a thing with her
biological mother for years despite the fact that they woman was a nightmare as
a parent (won’t go into the details here). The girl feels that she is not normal; she
is missing what looks normal to her. She lives in a world where most kids come
from split homes with missing parents. She also has a stable homelife with the
kinds of support that most of us would envy. But that is not enough for her.
It is this sense of not being in the world that controls so much of her behavior.
You might explore this with the boy.
t
From: Rochelle
Sent: Friday, April 12, 2013 2:25 PM
To: minutus@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [Minutus] Rejected

Just want some ideas re feeling rejected and abandoned in a 9 yr. old boy. He has a lovely , caring family with Mum and partner (not sure if they are married or not) who he calls Dad but he wants contact with him. Arrangement have been made in the past but his birth father doesn’t turn up. He knocked at his door recently and feels sure he heard someone at home and he shouted through the letter box it was him but the door wasn’t opened.

He also has issues of being bullied at school (he is large and overweight ) and he feels left out . He tried not to react to the bullying e.g. getting tripped up . At a recent residential he wasn’t given the password by his peers to let him into the room where all the others had gathered.

I have been treating him for a few months for behavioural problems. His background was he fell off a top bunk at 18 months onto his head. Nat Sulph worked miracles and he is a much calmer lad since then. He is a lovely boy – very intelligent in the adult was he speaks . He has answers for every argument and won’t back down. He is always warm . I tried Sulphur once but it really didn’t do anything and we went back to Nat Sulph. Looking back on his consultations I gave him Puls yesterday as he has been known to cling to mum when upset and Puls is in the Rx which follow well from Nat Sulph.

He craves cucumber and potatoes.

I am open to more suggestions

Thanks

Rochelle Marsden MSc, RSHom, MNWCH, AAMET

Registered with the Society of Homeopaths

EFT(Advanced) Practitioner

www.southporthomeopathy.co.uk

https://www.facebook.com/southporthomeopathicpractice

Thanks for the suggestions Maria, Tamar and Domenic. I will look at all of them. Lac Leon is interesting as I think he feels he is King –the way he talks. I will give it a read. Sac Off –less so as he has a savoury tooth rather than sweet although he did want to go to Costco to get some cake and their cake is disgustingly sweet. If this is what the family as well as the healthy food they tell me about no wonder they are all overweight!! Magnesiums I don’t know that much about so will look at these. I know Mur is for mother issues but what is for father issues? I suppose Carc could be in the running as Mum has survived cancer and I remember Carc does everything they can to make their father love them.

Thoughts, thoughts!!! I wonder if the Puls I have given him will do anything?
Rochelle
From: minutus@yahoogroups.com [mailto:minutus@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of tamarque
Sent: 12 April 2013 20:03
To: minutus@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [Minutus] Rejected
Interesting.
He has the egoism of sulph (never backing down)
Just looking at his cravings I find sulph and lac leo having both of them.

I don’t know Lac leo but all the milks seem to have nurturing issues. Perhaps

a read on this remedy might be interesting.
As for his father’s rejection—why is it so important to keep on trying to get this

man’s attention/love/support? My foster grand daughter has had a thing with her

biological mother for years despite the fact that they woman was a nightmare as

a parent (won’t go into the details here). The girl feels that she is not normal; she

is missing what looks normal to her. She lives in a world where most kids come

from split homes with missing parents. She also has a stable homelife with the

kinds of support that most of us would envy. But that is not enough for her.

It is this sense of not being in the world that controls so much of her behavior.
You might explore this with the boy.
t
From: Rochelle

Sent: Friday, April 12, 2013 2:25 PM

To: minutus@yahoogroups.com

Subject: [Minutus] Rejected
Just want some ideas re feeling rejected and abandoned in a 9 yr. old boy. He has a lovely , caring family with Mum and partner (not sure if they are married or not) who he calls Dad but he wants contact with him. Arrangement have been made in the past but his birth father doesn’t turn up. He knocked at his door recently and feels sure he heard someone at home and he shouted through the letter box it was him but the door wasn’t opened.

He also has issues of being bullied at school (he is large and overweight ) and he feels left out . He tried not to react to the bullying e.g. getting tripped up . At a recent residential he wasn’t given the password by his peers to let him into the room where all the others had gathered.

I have been treating him for a few months for behavioural problems. His background was he fell off a top bunk at 18 months onto his head. Nat Sulph worked miracles and he is a much calmer lad since then. He is a lovely boy – very intelligent in the adult was he speaks . He has answers for every argument and won’t back down. He is always warm . I tried Sulphur once but it really didn’t do anything and we went back to Nat Sulph. Looking back on his consultations I gave him Puls yesterday as he has been known to cling to mum when upset and Puls is in the Rx which follow well from Nat Sulph.

He craves cucumber and potatoes.

I am open to more suggestions

Thanks

Rochelle Marsden MSc, RSHom, MNWCH, AAMET

Registered with the Society of Homeopaths

EFT(Advanced) Practitioner

www.southporthomeopathy.co.uk

https://www.facebook.com/southporthomeopathicpractice

Hi Rochelle,

You may like to consult some of these rubrics for this case.

Overall it seems to match Aur-m-n as described in "3Pieces of Gold" by

WULFSBERG Terje

best,

V T Yekkirala

MIND - AILMENTS FROM - neglected; being - father; by one's

am-c. aur. lach. lyc. mag-c. mag-s. nat-m. Nux-v. staph. sulph. verat.

MIND - AILMENTS FROM - neglected; being

am-c. aur. carc. graph. ign. lac-h. lach. lyc. mag-c. mag-m. mag-s. med. Nat-m. Nux-v. oxyg. pall. plat. puls. sacch. sacch-a. sep. staph. sulph. thuj. verat.

MIND - AILMENTS FROM - rejected; from being

Aur. Aur-s. carc. Caust. LYC. Nat-m. Pall. sep. Sil. sul-ac. Sulph. thuj. TRITIC-VG.

MIND - AILMENTS FROM - indignation

acon. ambr. Ant-c. aur-m-n. bell. bry. carb-v. carc. chinin-s. Coloc. ferr. ferr-p. gels. hecla Ign. ip. lac-leo. led. Nat-m. Nux-v. oci-sa. plat. sal-fr. STAPH.

MIND - SADNESS - children, in

abrot. Ars. aur. aur-m-n. Calc. carc. caust. dulc. hydrog. Lach. lyc. mag-c. NAT-M. rhus-t. sep. sulph. vanil.
MIND - CLINGING - children; in - mother; child clings to the - hand of the mother; child will always take the

Ant-t. Bism. Bism-sn. gels. kali-c. lyc. phos. puls. vanil.

MIND - CLINGING - children; in - mother; child clings to the

Ant-t. bar-c. Bism. Bism-sn. borx. gels. kali-c. lyc. nat-m. oncor-t. phos. puls. sep. sil. vanil.
--- In minutus@yahoogroups.com, "Rochelle" wrote:

Great rubrics – thanks What rep is that first one from as I can’t find it!!

I will look at Aurum - m-n as I have loads of notes on it.
All the best
Rochelle
From: minutus@yahoogroups.com [mailto:minutus@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of vtyekkir
Sent: 13 April 2013 17:40
To: minutus@yahoogroups.com
Subject: [Minutus] Re: Rejected
Hi Rochelle,

You may like to consult some of these rubrics for this case.

Overall it seems to match Aur-m-n as described in "3Pieces of Gold" by

WULFSBERG Terje

best,

V T Yekkirala

MIND - AILMENTS FROM - neglected; being - father; by one's

am-c. aur. lach. lyc. mag-c. mag-s. nat-m. Nux-v. staph. sulph. verat.

MIND - AILMENTS FROM - neglected; being

am-c. aur. carc. graph. ign. lac-h. lach. lyc. mag-c. mag-m. mag-s. med. Nat-m. Nux-v. oxyg. pall. plat. puls. sacch. sacch-a. sep. staph. sulph. thuj. verat.

MIND - AILMENTS FROM - rejected; from being

Aur. Aur-s. carc. Caust. LYC. Nat-m. Pall. sep. Sil. sul-ac. Sulph. thuj. TRITIC-VG.

MIND - AILMENTS FROM - indignation

acon. ambr. Ant-c. aur-m-n. bell. bry. carb-v. carc. chinin-s. Coloc. ferr. ferr-p. gels. hecla Ign. ip. lac-leo. led. Nat-m. Nux-v. oci-sa. plat. sal-fr. STAPH.

MIND - SADNESS - children, in

abrot. Ars. aur. aur-m-n. Calc. carc. caust. dulc. hydrog. Lach. lyc. mag-c. NAT-M. rhus-t. sep. sulph. vanil.
MIND - CLINGING - children; in - mother; child clings to the - hand of the mother; child will always take the

Ant-t. Bism. Bism-sn. gels. kali-c. lyc. phos. puls. vanil.

MIND - CLINGING - children; in - mother; child clings to the

Ant-t. bar-c. Bism. Bism-sn. borx. gels. kali-c. lyc. nat-m. oncor-t. phos. puls. sep. sil. vanil.
--- In minutus@yahoogroups.com , "Rochelle" > wrote:

Rubrics from Radar 10.5.002

V T
--- In minutus@yahoogroups.com, "Rochelle" wrote:
it!!
Behalf Of
med.
sulph.
thuj.
ferr.
mag-c.
the
phos.
old boy.
they are
overweight
getting
his
His
Nat
lovely boy
every
once but
back
cling
Sulph.
www.southporthomeopathy.co.uk

Father issues are the carbons and sulphurs I believe,

Carcinosin is the 'life unled',

If there are abandonment issues, the 'kingly' attitude is the compensation, for the real king the emphasis is on the kingdom not the king itself. When the kingdom goes down so do the aurum's.

Warmly, Maria

Thanks – I use the Complete ’13 and Murphy’s. I have put that rubric into my Isis software now.
Rochelle
From: minutus@yahoogroups.com [mailto:minutus@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of vtyekkir
Sent: 14 April 2013 16:45
To: minutus@yahoogroups.com
Subject: FW: [Minutus] Re: Rejected
Rubrics from Radar 10.5.002

V T

--- In minutus@yahoogroups.com , "Rochelle" > wrote:
it!!
Behalf Of
med.
sulph.
thuj.
ferr.
mag-c.
the
phos.
old boy.
they are
overweight
getting
his
His
Nat
lovely boy
every
once but
back
cling
Sulph.
www.southporthomeopathy.co.uk