Back to the Emergency situation...wife's take
Posted: Sun Aug 30, 2009 5:59 pm
Wife says: Not feeling at peace because rug has been pulled out from under him
so many times...felt so good on friday..and then it started all over again. he
is very touched by how everyone is helping taking care of kids..and people
calling and being concerned..the general outpouring of love...she said he was
crying about this..very emotional. (He described it as emotional rollar
coaste)
At home...he wants everything to be in its place...anxious if things aren't
peaceful when he gets home....he wants a soothing environment...visually...if
all the laundry is not put away..that would be fine...but if its all over the
place..anxious...out of sight, out of mind. Always been concerned about
security..at night and day..doors locked, windows closed, etc. If she forgot
to close a window..she wouldn't run down stairs to close the window..he
would.( I think this started when someone stole his bike off the porch when he
wa 14...then he wanted door always locked..even my car doors which i never
locked).
His wife is alway giving things to people or charity...saying you can have
that, we don't need it..He says..would you check with me first...say he does
not like surprises.
Stomach issues: stomach aches...everyday..through the day...in the last
year...even during vacation. I didn't know about this. Eating would help
stomach ache for a while. Doctor told him in early winter that he didn't have
an ulcer because bengi wasn't worse from spicy foods (which he likes). Doctor
pressed on stomach...and concluded it was stress. Sensation in stomach of
'burning sensation" under navel was what he would feel and he would take tums
for several days..then it wouldn't happen for a few days...then it would start
again. Always better from eating, not necessarily coming back later that day.
She thinks he has good intuition...but that he relies on it too much and
sometimes he is wrong but he continues to rely on it.
so many times...felt so good on friday..and then it started all over again. he
is very touched by how everyone is helping taking care of kids..and people
calling and being concerned..the general outpouring of love...she said he was
crying about this..very emotional. (He described it as emotional rollar
coaste)
At home...he wants everything to be in its place...anxious if things aren't
peaceful when he gets home....he wants a soothing environment...visually...if
all the laundry is not put away..that would be fine...but if its all over the
place..anxious...out of sight, out of mind. Always been concerned about
security..at night and day..doors locked, windows closed, etc. If she forgot
to close a window..she wouldn't run down stairs to close the window..he
would.( I think this started when someone stole his bike off the porch when he
wa 14...then he wanted door always locked..even my car doors which i never
locked).
His wife is alway giving things to people or charity...saying you can have
that, we don't need it..He says..would you check with me first...say he does
not like surprises.
Stomach issues: stomach aches...everyday..through the day...in the last
year...even during vacation. I didn't know about this. Eating would help
stomach ache for a while. Doctor told him in early winter that he didn't have
an ulcer because bengi wasn't worse from spicy foods (which he likes). Doctor
pressed on stomach...and concluded it was stress. Sensation in stomach of
'burning sensation" under navel was what he would feel and he would take tums
for several days..then it wouldn't happen for a few days...then it would start
again. Always better from eating, not necessarily coming back later that day.
She thinks he has good intuition...but that he relies on it too much and
sometimes he is wrong but he continues to rely on it.