The boy who likes jails
Posted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 7:26 pm
Dear All,
I have been seeing this 12 yr old boy for about 8 years on and off and never felt I have found his remedy. Homeopaths such as Louis Klein and mine don't use reps lie I tend to but try to match a theme to a remedy so I would be interested to know if any of you can think of a remedy based on the theme of protection, jails, trapped etc.
My notes from yesterday state:-
The jail theme is still there and now he is interested in guns and playing at tying up. He said he wants to do the tying up but would only be tied up if the ropes were loose. He still makes Lego jails and police jails but is now also into weapons. When he was young and used to make fences to put his toy animals in he used to tell me it was to stop the animals escaping . Now he tells me the interest in weapons - he makes weapons out of bits of wood and stuff and keeps them under his bed- is because he likes having power. "I want to be the king of the world so I make the rules.
- I'm not keen on church so people wouldn't have to go
- Children should have £50 a week pocket money (mum says he saves all his )
- I would charge taxes.
Dreams - emotional and violent - "someone close to me passed away but he was murdered in a violent way."
From 2001 I wrote :-
He has a huge imagination. He has a thing about prisons, dungeons etc. and all his play is around this. This is what he draws as well. He makes cages and put animals inside. He draws happy and sad people behind bars. Everything is enclosed. I can't a rubric for this.
2004:-
He is still putting things into cages when he plays.
Also 2004:-
He is still playing animals in cages and tying up things with pieces of string.
"When I go to the Safari Park the lions are free. In cages they can't get run over or hunted. If they are free people could get trampled by elephants or eaten by lions. Baby animals would get scared in cages so I would cover them with a coat and feed them with a bottle. ."
I asked how his animals that he plays with feel in the cages. "Fine as they are made from wax." That time he drew me an animal in a cage made of bars.
There have been a lot of fears in the past and sexuality. He used to be very effeminate looking but not so much now. He can see red with uncontrolled violence after which there is often remorse. There is avarice and he doesn't spend money but saves it and tells me that he may need it when he is older. He is very intelligent at school and gets bullied and sometimes lashes out.
Remedies he has done well on include Verat Alb, Med and Calc Phos. I now feel he is a mineral because of the structure in his play and the fact that he feels he has to keep to the rules that there are in school.
This time he came really for a hay fever issue which seemed to be Allium c. and because he is scared to go to school because he feels threatened as his things keep getting vandalised and there is name calling to which he is very sensitive.
I thought this may be a case we could learn from if I can ever find the remedy for him
All the best
Rochelle
Registered Homeopath
EFT(Advanced) Practitioner
www.southporthomeopathy.co.uk
I have been seeing this 12 yr old boy for about 8 years on and off and never felt I have found his remedy. Homeopaths such as Louis Klein and mine don't use reps lie I tend to but try to match a theme to a remedy so I would be interested to know if any of you can think of a remedy based on the theme of protection, jails, trapped etc.
My notes from yesterday state:-
The jail theme is still there and now he is interested in guns and playing at tying up. He said he wants to do the tying up but would only be tied up if the ropes were loose. He still makes Lego jails and police jails but is now also into weapons. When he was young and used to make fences to put his toy animals in he used to tell me it was to stop the animals escaping . Now he tells me the interest in weapons - he makes weapons out of bits of wood and stuff and keeps them under his bed- is because he likes having power. "I want to be the king of the world so I make the rules.
- I'm not keen on church so people wouldn't have to go
- Children should have £50 a week pocket money (mum says he saves all his )
- I would charge taxes.
Dreams - emotional and violent - "someone close to me passed away but he was murdered in a violent way."
From 2001 I wrote :-
He has a huge imagination. He has a thing about prisons, dungeons etc. and all his play is around this. This is what he draws as well. He makes cages and put animals inside. He draws happy and sad people behind bars. Everything is enclosed. I can't a rubric for this.
2004:-
He is still putting things into cages when he plays.
Also 2004:-
He is still playing animals in cages and tying up things with pieces of string.
"When I go to the Safari Park the lions are free. In cages they can't get run over or hunted. If they are free people could get trampled by elephants or eaten by lions. Baby animals would get scared in cages so I would cover them with a coat and feed them with a bottle. ."
I asked how his animals that he plays with feel in the cages. "Fine as they are made from wax." That time he drew me an animal in a cage made of bars.
There have been a lot of fears in the past and sexuality. He used to be very effeminate looking but not so much now. He can see red with uncontrolled violence after which there is often remorse. There is avarice and he doesn't spend money but saves it and tells me that he may need it when he is older. He is very intelligent at school and gets bullied and sometimes lashes out.
Remedies he has done well on include Verat Alb, Med and Calc Phos. I now feel he is a mineral because of the structure in his play and the fact that he feels he has to keep to the rules that there are in school.
This time he came really for a hay fever issue which seemed to be Allium c. and because he is scared to go to school because he feels threatened as his things keep getting vandalised and there is name calling to which he is very sensitive.
I thought this may be a case we could learn from if I can ever find the remedy for him
All the best
Rochelle
Registered Homeopath
EFT(Advanced) Practitioner
www.southporthomeopathy.co.uk