Unloved
Posted: Mon Jun 08, 2009 10:14 pm
Hi everyone
I'm seeing a client at the moment who, as a child, discovered they weren't planned and as a result feels they are unloved - they know that actually they are very loved, but still have this underlying belief. Other common words that have come up in case taking are unwanted, unappreciated, under valued and unheard. As a compensation they've become a perfectionist and over achiever, but also with high expectations of others.
I'd be really grateful for some remedy thoughts on this please - I have looked at a number of remedies but nothing has as yet "hit the spot" for the rest of the case.
Thanks so much
Sarah
I'm seeing a client at the moment who, as a child, discovered they weren't planned and as a result feels they are unloved - they know that actually they are very loved, but still have this underlying belief. Other common words that have come up in case taking are unwanted, unappreciated, under valued and unheard. As a compensation they've become a perfectionist and over achiever, but also with high expectations of others.
I'd be really grateful for some remedy thoughts on this please - I have looked at a number of remedies but nothing has as yet "hit the spot" for the rest of the case.
Thanks so much
Sarah