Ideas for a remedy or just some ideas
Posted: Sat Mar 28, 2009 8:12 pm
I know i've read about this situation in sankaran but i'm too lazy to go
reread 3 of his books. A person has some heavy duty shame issues. An
attractive person who got ugly disfiguring boils on their face when they were
young. I only see this person every few years over the last 30 years. They
don't get boils anymore but they are always saying things to old friends(and
maybe new friends, for all i know) that are shaming. "you can't come to this
dinner cause the clothes you wear are not acceptable", "you can't give health
advice because you are overweight", "you don't really know how to sing". In
each case..the person was terribly offended and hurt and the boil person
didn't seem to have a clue. Its a case of the body projecting the shame
outward or the psyche being the shamer. She seems to be drawn to who has
power, money and appearances. But instead of dismissing the lowly friends of
her past...she seeks them out for opportunities to do her "shaming".
Years ago i talked her into seeing a homeopath in arizona. He gave her
palladium. Maybe it was after that that she became such an insulting person. I
don't know. She had warts on her fingers..and she was going to have them
removed..and i told her not to do it..the old warts removed..bronchial asthma
and then heart disease trick. She had them removed and got bronchial asthma
the next day. Maybe thats why she went to the homeopath. But she doesn't do
homeopathy anymore and i'm sure i won't convince her to do anything..cause i'm
30 pounds overweight. But i'm just interested in how a case like this would go
down. Her brother died of leukemia two years ago. Her other brother has heart
disease and is in the hospital dying and she says he is greatly shamed by his
situation and doesn't want anyone to know about it. Her father died at 50 of
heart attack.
I'm not sure what kind of feedback i'm seeking. Does anyone remember the
story, might have been in sankaran..about the boy with a brain tumor after his
loving grandmother who had always made him feel special died? Later, he was
in the guiness world record for receiving the most get well cards..and his
brain tumor disappeared cause he was "special" again.
What could this woman do to honor that miasm of shame within herself...without
getting boils on her face or shaming others. She seems to have projected the
shame onto her brothers...that they are ashamed of their illnesses. Is anyone
getting my drift here?
reread 3 of his books. A person has some heavy duty shame issues. An
attractive person who got ugly disfiguring boils on their face when they were
young. I only see this person every few years over the last 30 years. They
don't get boils anymore but they are always saying things to old friends(and
maybe new friends, for all i know) that are shaming. "you can't come to this
dinner cause the clothes you wear are not acceptable", "you can't give health
advice because you are overweight", "you don't really know how to sing". In
each case..the person was terribly offended and hurt and the boil person
didn't seem to have a clue. Its a case of the body projecting the shame
outward or the psyche being the shamer. She seems to be drawn to who has
power, money and appearances. But instead of dismissing the lowly friends of
her past...she seeks them out for opportunities to do her "shaming".
Years ago i talked her into seeing a homeopath in arizona. He gave her
palladium. Maybe it was after that that she became such an insulting person. I
don't know. She had warts on her fingers..and she was going to have them
removed..and i told her not to do it..the old warts removed..bronchial asthma
and then heart disease trick. She had them removed and got bronchial asthma
the next day. Maybe thats why she went to the homeopath. But she doesn't do
homeopathy anymore and i'm sure i won't convince her to do anything..cause i'm
30 pounds overweight. But i'm just interested in how a case like this would go
down. Her brother died of leukemia two years ago. Her other brother has heart
disease and is in the hospital dying and she says he is greatly shamed by his
situation and doesn't want anyone to know about it. Her father died at 50 of
heart attack.
I'm not sure what kind of feedback i'm seeking. Does anyone remember the
story, might have been in sankaran..about the boy with a brain tumor after his
loving grandmother who had always made him feel special died? Later, he was
in the guiness world record for receiving the most get well cards..and his
brain tumor disappeared cause he was "special" again.
What could this woman do to honor that miasm of shame within herself...without
getting boils on her face or shaming others. She seems to have projected the
shame onto her brothers...that they are ashamed of their illnesses. Is anyone
getting my drift here?