Fran wrote: "It is very homeopathic (and much more effective) to side with the argument the antagonistic person is making and use that energy to gain momentum for what you are trying to achieve. Very allopathic to only oppose."
In addition to its aesthetic appeal (much greater subtlety and finesse than flat-out opposing everything), it's also much more in accordance with basic communication and "argument" skills. "Communication" begins with "co"--"together". Good and effective communication can only happen on the basis of what each party has in *common* (that "co" again), and a more skillful communicator (such as Fran clearly is
Shannon

