Minutus

You have the right to reject good will if you want. But why would anyone want to do that. I said that like I would end a comment with "With Respect". I am sure that I have said "Dear Irene"; what is the problem with reversing the words. If you want to reject my good will, I guess you have some problems. I said it so that you would not take offense at my countering your ideas. Instead, you take offense.

But you did not address my points. Is this your way of avoiding ideas that undermine your ideas.

Roger Bird
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To: minutus@yahoogroups.com
From: furryboots@icehouse.net
Date: Tue, 1 Oct 2013 00:11:24 -0700
Subject: Re: [Minutus] Clathrates
You do not have the right to address me thus

REPLY TO: only
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Irene de Villiers, B.Sc AASCA MCSSA D.I.Hom/D.Vet.Hom.
P.O. Box 4703 Spokane WA 99220.
www.angelfire.com/fl/furryboots/clickhere.html (Veterinary Homeopath.)
"Man who say it cannot be done should not interrupt one doing it."

Dear Irene – I am sure Roger meant no disrespect. Soroush
From: minutus@yahoogroups.com [mailto:minutus@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Irene de Villiers
Sent: 01 October 2013 08:11
To: minutus@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [Minutus] Clathrates
You do not have the right to address me thus

REPLY TO: > only
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Irene de Villiers, B.Sc AASCA MCSSA D.I.Hom/D.Vet.Hom.
P.O. Box 4703 Spokane WA 99220.
www.angelfire.com/fl/furryboots/clickhere.html (Veterinary Homeopath.)
"Man who say it cannot be done should not interrupt one doing it."

Thank you, Saroush. You have no idea how much I appreciate that. I meant respect. I say truthfully that her response sent me into an ugly depression for 12 hours. Fortunately I didn't do anything wrong or mean spirited because of it. I just stewed in my self-hatred. Sometimes life hands one the unexpected.

Roger Bird
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To: minutus@yahoogroups.com
From: finrod@finrod.co.uk
Date: Tue, 1 Oct 2013 15:12:12 +0100
Subject: RE: [Minutus] Clathrates
Dear Irene – I am sure Roger meant no disrespect. Soroush
From: minutus@yahoogroups.com [mailto:minutus@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Irene de Villiers
Sent: 01 October 2013 08:11
To: minutus@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [Minutus] Clathrates
You do not have the right to address me thus

REPLY TO: > only
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Irene de Villiers, B.Sc AASCA MCSSA D.I.Hom/D.Vet.Hom.
P.O. Box 4703 Spokane WA 99220.
www.angelfire.com/fl/furryboots/clickhere.html (Veterinary Homeopath.)
"Man who say it cannot be done should not interrupt one doing it."

Now you're going to get Soroush mad at you for misspelling his name!
But I must say I had the same reaction as you, Roger, regarding the transposition of Dear Irene to Irene dear. From now on we should all address her as "Irene dear" just so she gets used to it. Or how about Irene "dear de clathrate" Villiers.
In a message dated 10/1/2013 1:08:21 P.M. Pacific Daylight Time, rogerbird2@hotmail.com writes:
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Love people, expect them to love you back.

roger, sometimes when people use terms such as that, especially when there appears to be no love loss between the two, it can come across as condescending. it is even more difficult to discern people's intentions when it comes to emails and message boards such as this one. if you didn't mean it as such then explain and move on. apologize if you feel and realize it as a mistake. it appears she does not see herself as your dear anything, even if you meant no harm those terms should be directed towards who appreciate being your "dear".
just my take on it
vicki
From: Roger B
To: minutus@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Tuesday, October 1, 2013 1:45 PM
Subject: RE: [Minutus] Clathrates

Thank you, Saroush. You have no idea how much I appreciate that. I meant respect. I say truthfully that her response sent me into an ugly depression for 12 hours. Fortunately I didn't do anything wrong or mean spirited because of it. I just stewed in my self-hatred. Sometimes life hands one the unexpected.

Roger Bird

To: minutus@yahoogroups.comFrom: finrod@finrod.co.ukDate: Tue, 1 Oct 2013 15:12:12 +0100Subject: RE: [Minutus] Clathrates
Dear Irene – I am sure Roger meant no disrespect. Soroush
From: minutus@yahoogroups.com [mailto:minutus@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Irene de Villiers
Sent: 01 October 2013 08:11
To: minutus@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [Minutus] Clathrates
On Sep 30, 2013, at 6:29 PM, Roger B wrote:> > > Irene dear,You do not have the right to address me thusREPLY TO: > only--Irene de Villiers, B.Sc AASCA MCSSA D.I.Hom/D.Vet.Hom.P.O. Box 4703 Spokane WA 99220.www.angelfire.com/fl/furryboots/clickhere.html (Veterinary Homeopath.)"Man who say it cannot be done should not interrupt one doing it."

IN my culture "Irene dear" is presumptuous and rude, and/or facetious, unless from a family member.
That is the problem in connotation with reversing the words.

It is my way of declining to respond to rudeness.
Please use the normal salutation.

I do not always have the time to respond either depending what is going on in my lfe. I have various court deadlines to meet requiring a great deal of busy work to respond to the fascinating things the WA DOH thinks up to say. (My sense of humor falls off at times and I have to go pick it back up). I just wish this was not sub judice and that I could run an appropriately worded commentary as it goes. I'm sure it would be extremely entertaining or at least fascinating, but it might also be deemed practice of medicine in raising blood pressure for anyone needing that. It's not like I can enclose any clathrates either (trying to make this topical); it all goes by fax

Namaste,
..Irene

REPLY TO: only
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Irene de Villiers, B.Sc AASCA MCSSA D.I.Hom/D.Vet.Hom.
P.O. Box 4703 Spokane WA 99220.
www.angelfire.com/fl/furryboots/clickhere.html (Veterinary Homeopath.)
"Man who say it cannot be done should not interrupt one doing it."

I take VERY SERIOUSLY in my daily life that we are all ONE. It is more than just a platitude for me. It is something I live. So I tend to move in the direction of caring about everyone. "They" are all me. They are not all my personality or even my mind, thank G0D. But they are all consciousness, and everything else is merely the script that we have to play this lifetime.

Roger
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To: minutus@yahoogroups.com
From: vickih_fla@yahoo.com
Date: Tue, 1 Oct 2013 14:51:39 -0700
Subject: Re: [Minutus] Clathrates
roger, sometimes when people use terms such as that, especially when there appears to be no love loss between the two, it can come across as condescending. it is even more difficult to discern people's intentions when it comes to emails and message boards such as this one. if you didn't mean it as such then explain and move on. apologize if you feel and realize it as a mistake. it appears she does not see herself as your dear anything, even if you meant no harm those terms should be directed towards who appreciate being your "dear".
just my take on it
vicki
From: Roger B
To: minutus@yahoogroups.com
Sent: Tuesday, October 1, 2013 1:45 PM
Subject: RE: [Minutus] Clathrates

Thank you, Saroush. You have no idea how much I appreciate that. I meant respect. I say truthfully that her response sent me into an ugly depression for 12 hours. Fortunately I didn't do anything wrong or mean spirited because of it. I just stewed in my self-hatred. Sometimes life hands one the unexpected.

Roger Bird

To: minutus@yahoogroups.comFrom: finrod@finrod.co.ukDate: Tue, 1 Oct 2013 15:12:12 +0100Subject: RE: [Minutus] Clathrates
Dear Irene – I am sure Roger meant no disrespect. Soroush
From: minutus@yahoogroups.com [mailto:minutus@yahoogroups.com] On Behalf Of Irene de Villiers
Sent: 01 October 2013 08:11
To: minutus@yahoogroups.com
Subject: Re: [Minutus] Clathrates
On Sep 30, 2013, at 6:29 PM, Roger B wrote:> > > Irene dear,You do not have the right to address me thusREPLY TO: > only--Irene de Villiers, B.Sc AASCA MCSSA D.I.Hom/D.Vet.Hom.P.O. Box 4703 Spokane WA 99220.www.angelfire.com/fl/furryboots/clickhere.html (Veterinary Homeopath.)"Man who say it cannot be done should not interrupt one doing it."

Hi,
I think Soroush is a woman. Not sure because I have a Iranian friend who is a guy and his name is Soroush. But somewhere way back, I remember Soroush saying she was a woman. We are all grateful to Soroush for moderating this site over many years.
Best,
Ellen
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Ellen,

Considering that Soroush has not banned me and is accepting, patient, and apparently compassionate, you may be right. (:->) But I knew a Sarosh who was an Iranian immigrant to India, and who also was a homeopath and he was a male. And I think that the pronunciations are exactly the same. Although, when I deal with our Soroush, I keep picturing him as a him.

Roger
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To: minutus@yahoogroups.com
From: ellen.madono@gmail.com
Date: Thu, 3 Oct 2013 09:47:48 +0900
Subject: Re: [Minutus] Clathrates
Hi,
I think Soroush is a woman. Not sure because I have a Iranian friend who is a guy and his name is Soroush. But somewhere way back, I remember Soroush saying she was a woman. We are all grateful to Soroush for moderating this site over many years.
Best,
Ellen
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