Re: 2 sided case?
Posted: Fri Feb 20, 2004 2:31 pm
Hi again Rochelle
It's "early days" with the Lacs yet and more and more "observations" will be
making it into the literature over the next few years.
This observation is from my clinical experience but triggered initially by a
pespective put by Sankaran at a paper he gave at the ICCH Conf in Tromso in
2000 and one can see it in his proving if you go through it carefully .
He added some good info to be added to the initial proving of Houghton and
Halahan.
He introduced the idea that the core issue is about getting this balance
right and I have worked with it to good effect over the past 4 years.
I don't know if you can still get a copy of the Proceedings from that
conference; might be worth your while to track it down as Alize Timmerman
also gave an excellent paper on Lac-h which touched on this idea as well.
The Links book on MM of Milk has something in it by me which expounds on
this idea; with cases.
It's not a fear of the future but a problem with reaching out and grabbing
it by the throat as the individual is "torn" between meeting his/her own
neeeds vs meeting those of others and tends to put the others first.
It is the Christian way; part of our conditioning & why we, in Western
cultures, tend to abgnegate our needs in favour of another's. We "turn the
other cheek" and value Humility over Egotism..
Sankaran at Tromso very nicely suggested that it is why we tend to sign our
names using only the initial and add emphasis to the surname which
represents the group identity. How many lists of names have we ever seen
with both a given name and a surname? Not many! Sankaran took this idea
further by pointing out that in Eastern cultures (especially communist
regimes) the tendency has been to give all of the power to the state; to
wear grey; to lose one's individuality.
Sankaran urges that we need a balance and Lac-h can bring that about.
So, the Lac-h "issue" is about getting in touch with the divinity within and
not looking outside for it.
We are creative beings who have the power to shape our own destinies. That
is why Foll is comp to Lac-h; it's a creativity issue in that instance.
Because of this tendency not to promote the individual consciousness, if any
of my patients are Lac-h I look at the way they sign their name and often
suggest a change in signature.
hope that helps.
best wishes
Patricia
It's "early days" with the Lacs yet and more and more "observations" will be
making it into the literature over the next few years.
This observation is from my clinical experience but triggered initially by a
pespective put by Sankaran at a paper he gave at the ICCH Conf in Tromso in
2000 and one can see it in his proving if you go through it carefully .
He added some good info to be added to the initial proving of Houghton and
Halahan.
He introduced the idea that the core issue is about getting this balance
right and I have worked with it to good effect over the past 4 years.
I don't know if you can still get a copy of the Proceedings from that
conference; might be worth your while to track it down as Alize Timmerman
also gave an excellent paper on Lac-h which touched on this idea as well.
The Links book on MM of Milk has something in it by me which expounds on
this idea; with cases.
It's not a fear of the future but a problem with reaching out and grabbing
it by the throat as the individual is "torn" between meeting his/her own
neeeds vs meeting those of others and tends to put the others first.
It is the Christian way; part of our conditioning & why we, in Western
cultures, tend to abgnegate our needs in favour of another's. We "turn the
other cheek" and value Humility over Egotism..
Sankaran at Tromso very nicely suggested that it is why we tend to sign our
names using only the initial and add emphasis to the surname which
represents the group identity. How many lists of names have we ever seen
with both a given name and a surname? Not many! Sankaran took this idea
further by pointing out that in Eastern cultures (especially communist
regimes) the tendency has been to give all of the power to the state; to
wear grey; to lose one's individuality.
Sankaran urges that we need a balance and Lac-h can bring that about.
So, the Lac-h "issue" is about getting in touch with the divinity within and
not looking outside for it.
We are creative beings who have the power to shape our own destinies. That
is why Foll is comp to Lac-h; it's a creativity issue in that instance.
Because of this tendency not to promote the individual consciousness, if any
of my patients are Lac-h I look at the way they sign their name and often
suggest a change in signature.
hope that helps.
best wishes
Patricia