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Christine Wyndham-Thomas
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Re: Help needed

Post by Christine Wyndham-Thomas »

I have a problem and I'm not sure how to deal with it, but I need some ideas before this Tuesday.
I don't like the limelight, i.e. being the focus of attention. If cameras are around I tend to go to the middle of everyone else; I hate being in the front. On my Wedding Day (20 years ago) my legs were shaking so much I was asked if I was all right. I'm still like that even now.
On Tuesday, because I'll be standing in the local elections - I was nominated and I accepted without really realising what I was letting myself in for - TV cameras want to interview me and the four other candidates from the same party. I've just been informed of this now, and already I feel myself going hot at the thought of it and my breathing starts to get faster...and it's not even Tuesday yet!
So, please, any ideas would be most welcome.
Regards
Christine
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Rochelle
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Re: Help needed

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Take Aconite 30 – like one of my patients’ does before a public performance. Also learn EFT tapping and use it!!
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I have a problem and I'm not sure how to deal with it, but I need some ideas before this Tuesday.
I don't like the limelight, i.e. being the focus of attention. If cameras are around I tend to go to the middle of everyone else; I hate being in the front. On my Wedding Day (20 years ago) my legs were shaking so much I was asked if I was all right. I'm still like that even now.
On Tuesday, because I'll be standing in the local elections - I was nominated and I accepted without really realising what I was letting myself in for - TV cameras want to interview me and the four other candidates from the same party. I've just been informed of this now, and already I feel myself going hot at the thought of it and my breathing starts to get faster...and it's not even Tuesday yet!
So, please, any ideas would be most welcome.
Regards

Christine
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Bill Giman
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Re: Help needed

Post by Bill Giman »

My choice would be Gels 30C.
Main remedy for stage fright, before any major challange, all sorts of autonomic
reactions or dysfunctions occur - trembling, weakness, etc. Anxiety before tests, interviews, and performances.
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Ginny Wilken
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Re: Help needed

Post by Ginny Wilken »

Gelsemium is the classic stage fright remedy. It works well for me as well as for the dogs.

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I have a problem and I'm not sure how to deal with it, but I need some ideas before this Tuesday.
I don't like the limelight, i.e. being the focus of attention. If cameras are around I tend to go to the middle of everyone else; I hate being in the front. On my Wedding Day (20 years ago) my legs were shaking so much I was asked if I was all right. I'm still like that even now.
On Tuesday, because I'll be standing in the local elections - I was nominated and I accepted without really realising what I was letting myself in for - TV cameras want to interview me and the four other candidates from the same party. I've just been informed of this now, and already I feel myself going hot at the thought of it and my breathing starts to get faster...and it's not even Tuesday yet!
So, please, any ideas would be most welcome.
Regards
Christine


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Lynn Cremona
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Joined: Thu Apr 22, 2004 10:00 pm

Re: Help needed

Post by Lynn Cremona »

additional thoughts and suggestions
Mentals

Anxiety when speaking in company

Anxiety anticipating an engagement

Anxiety (location felt in)

Fear observed of her condition being

Fear saying something wrong

Fear to speak

Forgetful of words while speaking

Loathing speaking

mind goes blank while speaking

Looked at can't bear to be

Memory weakness say for what is about to
Thoughts vanishing

Walking rapidly from anxiety (pacing)
Vertigo during anxiety
Generals

Trembling from anxiety

a handful of differentials:
Aethusa cynapium

If the person knows the stuff cold but is worried that their mind will go blank when faced with the exam. Tyler talks about it for "exam funk."
Argentum nitricum

Where Gelsemium manifests as paralysis, Argentum nit manifests as excess energy-- running in circles with anxiety.
Baryta carb

feels that people are laughing at them
Calcarea

Fear that others will recognize your weakness if it is a matter of how sharp / quick / comprehensive your mind is, or something like that, fear of people judging you or fear that they might be judging. They don’t want others to observe how bad they are.
Gelsemium:

Comes on slowly. You see this picture the week before exams when everyone seems to be "coming down with something".

Performance anxiety, but usually for a performance before an audience, rather than a test.
Lycopodium

Fears their personality will be judged.
Silicea

Has a fear of public speaking, because they are afraid that they are going to get fatigued and the mind will not perform properly or not be able to communicate properly.
Thuja

Very similar to Lycopodium. Fear of being judged on your totality or appearance.

The way that you look and the way that you present yourself is what is important to Thuja. Concerned about how other people think of them. Finds it hard to express themselves.

Fear of revealing herself (uncovering, exposing) to other people.
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I have a problem and I'm not sure how to deal with it, but I need some ideas before this Tuesday.
I don't like the limelight, i.e. being the focus of attention. If cameras are around I tend to go to the middle of everyone else; I hate being in the front. On my Wedding Day (20 years ago) my legs were shaking so much I was asked if I was all right. I'm still like that even now.
On Tuesday, because I'll be standing in the local elections - I was nominated and I accepted without really realising what I was letting myself in for - TV cameras want to interview me and the four other candidates from the same party. I've just been informed of this now, and already I feel myself going hot at the thought of it and my breathing starts to get faster...and it's not even Tuesday yet!
So, please, any ideas would be most welcome.
Regards

Christine


Angela McGuire
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Re: Help needed

Post by Angela McGuire »

Try some Bach Flower remedies starting now.

Hypnosis may also help.

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I have a problem and I'm not sure how to deal with it, but I need some ideas before this Tuesday.
I don't like the limelight, i.e. being the focus of attention. If cameras are around I tend to go to the middle of everyone else; I hate being in the front. On my Wedding Day (20 years ago) my legs were shaking so much I was asked if I was all right. I'm still like that even now.
On Tuesday, because I'll be standing in the local elections - I was nominated and I accepted without really realising what I was letting myself in for - TV cameras want to interview me and the four other candidates from the same party. I've just been informed of this now, and already I feel myself going hot at the thought of it and my breathing starts to get faster...and it's not even Tuesday yet!
So, please, any ideas would be most welcome.
Regards
Christine

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Christine Wyndham-Thomas
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Joined: Thu Apr 11, 2002 10:00 pm

Re: Help needed

Post by Christine Wyndham-Thomas »

Thanks everyone for your help and advices.
I'm going to use EFT. Tried it out a couple of times last night and am amazed by its effect. I have absolutely no doubt I'll be okay on Tuesday.
Regards
Christine

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lightspirals
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Re: Help needed

Post by lightspirals »

Gels or another as Lynn listed as an acute aid since the occasion is so soon. I would also seek resolving it permanently with constitutional treatment. I used to have stage fright badly until doing so many years ago. Of course some butterflies, etc. is still within the range of normal but these more extreme and ongoing symptoms should certainly be able to be resolved :)
Good luck,
Liz

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Christine Wyndham-Thomas
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Joined: Thu Apr 11, 2002 10:00 pm

Re: Help needed

Post by Christine Wyndham-Thomas »

Hi Lynn
Thanks ever so much for this.
Having gone through this list, Gels would definitely be what applies to me.
I did do some EFT last night and this morning, and I must say I can at least think about it without getting all hot and flustered. I never thought of it as a problem until now. Back when I got married I wasn't in to alternative healing and since then, I've never been in the limelight.
Anyway, thanks for your help.
Regards
Christine


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