Re: using subjectivity
Posted: Wed Apr 03, 2013 6:08 pm
I feel strongly that when one is working, it has to be "purely for the recipient" - for the case at hand. That is - your own ego needs to *not* be there - it can only lead you astray and make your work "worth less". It's important to see the case, and not to care what anyone thinks of it (and it is an IT - it is not personal about you) and what anyone thinks of you is not relevant.
The rule I like, is
"Leave your ego at home, then nobody can walk on it."
(and by the same token it cannot get in the way)
I want ALL my perceptions, knowledge, alertness, brainpower, experience etc, tuned in to "the case".
It's as if I do not exist while I am doing that, (after all it is not about me) so I am in "case-mode" at the time.
It's important to be independent of the good (or bad) opinions of others and to live one's own life:-)
Opinions of others are gifts (to treasure or to learn from)...they do not make you what you are.
You are not more or less because of what someone else says or does.
Only you make you what you are, by the choices YOU make.
For me it's a choice to put all my perceptions on "the case" (not on the client, but on the case, as an "it", a thing, that I am aiming to resolve) when I am working. That OBJECT-ivity works for me, and it still allows all my past experiences to be of benefit if appropriate.
Namaste,
Irene
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Irene de Villiers, B.Sc AASCA MCSSA D.I.Hom/D.Vet.Hom.
P.O. Box 4703 Spokane WA 99220.
www.angelfire.com/fl/furryboots/clickhere.html (Veterinary Homeopath.)
"Man who say it cannot be done should not interrupt one doing it."
The rule I like, is
"Leave your ego at home, then nobody can walk on it."
(and by the same token it cannot get in the way)
I want ALL my perceptions, knowledge, alertness, brainpower, experience etc, tuned in to "the case".
It's as if I do not exist while I am doing that, (after all it is not about me) so I am in "case-mode" at the time.
It's important to be independent of the good (or bad) opinions of others and to live one's own life:-)
Opinions of others are gifts (to treasure or to learn from)...they do not make you what you are.
You are not more or less because of what someone else says or does.
Only you make you what you are, by the choices YOU make.
For me it's a choice to put all my perceptions on "the case" (not on the client, but on the case, as an "it", a thing, that I am aiming to resolve) when I am working. That OBJECT-ivity works for me, and it still allows all my past experiences to be of benefit if appropriate.
Namaste,
Irene
REPLY TO: only
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Irene de Villiers, B.Sc AASCA MCSSA D.I.Hom/D.Vet.Hom.
P.O. Box 4703 Spokane WA 99220.
www.angelfire.com/fl/furryboots/clickhere.html (Veterinary Homeopath.)
"Man who say it cannot be done should not interrupt one doing it."