Re: Sankaran, Scholten and others, was provings???
Posted: Thu Jul 02, 2009 3:38 pm
Thanks, Joy -
It is a very nice list of "watch out for this advice"; I agree with all of these- and yes - "keeping silent oneself" and LISTENING ( to both said and unsaid messages)- is the golden rule...
But in some countries ( like India) where doctors play multiple roles, friend, philospher, guide, financial adviser etc. ( I have even loaned money to patients to buy medicines and food ) I have had my share of problems in maintaining a very objective relationship. When you have someone who has to go to work the next day to support her family of 4 of 5 children and all the children are sitting around you and look up to you like you are God ( in India doctors used to carry a lot of respect) it is very difficult not to get involved with the families...
I remember a case where an old woman came to me with about 10 people ( she rented out apartments in a big house she owned) and told me " I have had to pass urine 20 - 30 times yesterday, make it alright and I shall bring my whole street of people to you" - she did not have any other medical history and has been menopausal for about 20 years...later on after labs were done it turned out that she had Diabetes - but right then and there - I gave Calc.phos 200 and that took care of her condition - and the best thing is she became so attached to my family and we used to call her my wife's foster mother...
-- In minutus@yahoogroups.com, Joy Lucas wrote:
It is a very nice list of "watch out for this advice"; I agree with all of these- and yes - "keeping silent oneself" and LISTENING ( to both said and unsaid messages)- is the golden rule...
But in some countries ( like India) where doctors play multiple roles, friend, philospher, guide, financial adviser etc. ( I have even loaned money to patients to buy medicines and food ) I have had my share of problems in maintaining a very objective relationship. When you have someone who has to go to work the next day to support her family of 4 of 5 children and all the children are sitting around you and look up to you like you are God ( in India doctors used to carry a lot of respect) it is very difficult not to get involved with the families...
I remember a case where an old woman came to me with about 10 people ( she rented out apartments in a big house she owned) and told me " I have had to pass urine 20 - 30 times yesterday, make it alright and I shall bring my whole street of people to you" - she did not have any other medical history and has been menopausal for about 20 years...later on after labs were done it turned out that she had Diabetes - but right then and there - I gave Calc.phos 200 and that took care of her condition - and the best thing is she became so attached to my family and we used to call her my wife's foster mother...
-- In minutus@yahoogroups.com, Joy Lucas wrote: